DAISYPATH VACATION


Oct 27, 2013

Answered by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan: sukaa sgtt!


Question:

If a girl and a boy are affected to each other in young age what are they supposed to do? And also what if they want to married but are scared to talk to their parents what’s the best thing to do?

Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh

Thank you for your question. This is an online question and since I don't know you or her or your families personally, I will speak generally. 

If you're a Muslim guy and you're emotionally involved with a girl that you are talking to, texting, skyping, hanging out, or worse with, then listen up. You need to know that this is all wrong. 

The most important treasure a Muslim has is his or her honour. Allah honoured us since our birth. ولقد كرمنا بني آدم "We honoured the children of Adam" He says in the Qur'an. 

Marriage is the relationship that honours both husband and wife. Any romantic involvement outside of that violates than honour. Would you be ok if your sister was just texting some boy who she likes? The girl you are 'involved' with is someone’s sister, someone's daughter. They have dreams of marrying her off in a dignified way one day. If you are too scared to be a man and take the honourable road of approaching her family (many are so scared they can't even approach their own family), then realize that you aren't emotionally ready for a real, loving, relationship. All you really have are very strong urges that are selfish at best. 

A real marriage brings two families together. A real marriage is about taking responsibility. Your feelings may be very strong. I don't doubt it. Islam didn't make it Haram for you to fall in love. It didn't forbid you from wanting someone. It only guides that love so it protects you, her, your families and especially saves you from humiliation on judgment day. If you love her so much, why are you ok with letting her engage in this questionable relationship knowing full well that she will have to answer Allah just like you will. You don't love her enough to save her from that? If any of you out there are 'in love', please note that teenage years are a crazy time. You totally believe you can't live without someone and you get over them and move on to the next thing in no time as though nothing happened. Don't let your strong emotions lead you into a mistake that will ruin two lives and two families. 

The right thing to do, I think (and it’s just my opinion), is to cut off communications entirely until you are ready to talk to your family and hers. Otherwise you are playing with someone’s emotions and creating a stressful situation that will hurt you and her in ways that can scar you for the rest of your lives. 

And Allah knows best. 

Answered by Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan

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kinda of relief!


Someone dedicated this song for me.
I find it is sweet but a bit horrible.. arghh! Haha..
Well.,, for sure bukan 100% macam nie.. 


Mungkin kita pernah rasa tentang cinta,
Yang takdirnya bukan untuk kita
Mungkin ini adalah cara meluah cinta,
Tanpa berkata atau berpandang mata,

I’m sorry but i love you,
I’m sorry if i miss you,
Even if i can’t have you ,
You know i’ll always be there for you,

Mungkin aku mencintaimu walaupun engkau tak pernah tahu,
Mungkin aku mencintaimu tanpa lelah atau pun jemu,
Mungkin kita tak bersama di takdirkan,
Tak mengapa asal kau bahagia

Hahaha.. a bit la same.. tapi tak semua..
Of course lah he know I like him.. 
Tapi yang part verse..
"mungkin ini adalah cara meluah cinta, tanpa berkata atau berpandang mata.."

Sukee.. comel je. haha... hakikatnya we did..
For sure.. lebih baik begitu..
Tak pernah aku bayangkan terover sgt lah meluah cinta tu.. :p

Another good good song..

Tak akan pernah hilang rasaku
Cinta yang membawa dalam hatiku
Bagai mata yang tak terpejam
Aku tetap menantimu

2 3 lagu yg buat aku gelak.
Terkena sekali. Hahaha!

Satu lagi,tiap kali rasa loser.. dengar lagu nie..
Makin loser.. hahaha

Aku yang mengejar bayang cinta
Kian terbiar
Terpendam kata
Tak terungkap selamanya

Pedihnya hanya aku yang merasa
Mahu memilikinya
Aku hanya hamba cinta

Bisik hatiku lepaskan dirinya
Sungguh aku tak bisa
Biarlah ku sendiri
Tanpa kasih di hati

Papepun, Attierah tak leh manja. Kena kuat!! Hehe! 
Keep fighting. InsyaAllah, benda baik dipermudahkan.. :)

Mr Marketing! LET'S do it!! Hee :D

^________^ 
relieved sgt!!

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Oct 3, 2013

Thursday Blues!


Masuk hampir sebulan. Ok. mujahadah berhasil.
Ceewah! haha. ok2, back to basic.
Tak nyesal pun bila unfriend dengan dia..
Cuma.. ade sikit kesian kat diri sendiri.. haha
Pasaipa??

"Yelah.. orang tu takde nye kisah awak tu unfriend ngan dia..
So, awka buat la ape pun.. dia tak heran.. "

Fuyoo.. aha..aku tak buat nak suh dia kesah.. tapi about 9% tu ade la sikit.
Well. aku human being kan. of course la ade sikit perasaan gitu..
Tapi tujuan utama unfriend dgn Mr Marketing.. biar lah aku je tau.. :)

Yang penting, back tu basic..
Al-umuri bimaqsidiha,,setiap perbuatan/urusan diukur berdasarkan niat.

Part of my naughty side berkata, 
" rugi ar dia tak sedar betapa aku suka dia..hahaha"

Part of my conscious side, my bright and mature side, hahaha.. plak kata.
" Attierah, berlapang dadalah andai dia bukan untukmu, 
andai dia untukmu, sabarlah menanti.. cepat atau lambat, pasti dia menyedarinya. jika tak pun,, insyaAllah, rencana Allah pasti lebih baik..  :) "

Ooo yeahh!
A bit relieve actually,writing and writing is great feeling.. 
 Whatsoever come onwards, I'll continue my persistency.. commitment to my studies and business. :)
Attierah kan, harus kuat, senyum, happy, kadang-kadang perlu jugak pe menangis...hehe !!

Ok. keyword for a brightest future!!
1 year and more more.. keep holding on...!! :)


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